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Posted by Polly Esther on August 30, 2008, 9:54 pm
Beautiful story, Lia. Thank you for sharing your quilt shopping event with
us. It's a memory you'll always cherish even if you came away almost
empty-handed. Polly
"Taria" <wrote>I enjoyed your 'tour' Lia. You know a docent at the art
museum told
> me if I kept bringing my kids in they would learn to enjoy the place.
> (free day only when nobody expected a nice quiet museum) It didn't
> work so well on my kids but like you it wasn't due to my not trying.
>
> I have gone along with my dad to what he calls 'the hippie book store'.
> It is an occult store where he enjoys the astrology section. I try
> to be interested but it is tough for me. I do like the crystals
> but he isn't looking at those. I try.
>
> My mom was my biggest sewing fan. I miss her. Gotta love family for
> what they have in them though. Each has their own special gifts. I am
> still looking for that is some family members. LOL
>
>
> So what you gonna quilt with that thread? I enjoyed your stash
> saga.
> Julia Altshuler wrote:
>
>> Jim and I are back from 10 days in Hendersonville where we met my
>> parents for a family vacation. My parents have no interest in
>> traditionally feminine activities. They actively don't know how to
>> cook, go out a lot, or get others to cook for them. My mother treats a
>> knowledge or interest in all things sewing as some arcane and useless
>> talent, the way some people have perfect pitch or can intuit 12 digit
>> prime numbers. My father has memories of his mother supporting the
>> family by sewing on a treadle during the Great Depression, but it's not
>> something you'd do for fun. I adore quilts and quilting. They accept
>> this about me but secretly wonder if I was switched at the hospital.
>>
>>
>> The first thing I did was take them for a tour of a quilt shop. I
>> didn't mean to. I wanted to drop by for a private orgy, but you know
>> how it is with family and limited time and rental cars. If I was going
>> to get a chance to go, they were going to come along.
>>
>>
>> The first point of connection was the 30s repro fabrics. I showed them
>> the shelf, told them about the renewed interest, and how these were
>> based on originals. They loved them. They thought of people they knew
>> who would wear housecoats made out of exactly such fabrics. They
>> remembered the way women would wear aprons with the small designs, then
>> take them off to go shopping downtown. They brought up the
>> sophisticated ladies who wore tailored black and pinstripe. Those were
>> 30s fabrics too.
>>
>>
>> I showed Mom how new laser technologies made it possible to get a
>> greater selection of patterns on flannel. I noticed her reaching out to
>> pet the fabric. She's catching on, I thought.
>>
>>
>> The batiks had less appeal for them. They were interested in the room
>> of novelty fabrics. My nieces and nephews have different interests and
>> might like fabrics with basketballs or dolls. Mom was interested in a
>> Raggedy Anne doll for the youngest granddaughter, but she was so turned
>> off by the misspelling (raggaddy) that she thought better of buying it.
>>
>>
>> The sales clerk (owner?) asked us what sorts of quilts we made. I said
>> that I was mostly a piecer and machine quilter, that I knew how to do
>> hand applique and hand piecing, but while I love the result, I didn't
>> love doing it. Mom, of course, doesn't sew anything. It was a funny
>> moment. The women in the shop wanted to connect with Mom because she's
>> older, but Mom had no common ground with which to make that connection.
>>
>>
>> Dad was intrigued by big boxes of buttons. I helped him pick out 10
>> matching ones. As he now has the bent over shape of an old man, he has
>> a seamstress in Miami who puts buttons and button holes in the right
>> places so he can wear suspenders instead of a belt. He was thrilled
>> buying buttons.
>>
>>
>> They had a whole room of fusibles. I told my parents about how some
>> people love them and some people don't think their use belongs in real
>> quilting. I showed them the class samples of embroidery done on top of
>> the line Berninas and mentioned the same thing. Some think the new
>> technologies are great. Some think they're cheating.
>>
>>
>> I felt like a tour guide in my native country trying to give clueless
>> tourists some idea of why I love my home, why it excites me. My parents
>> understand enthusiasm, but they don't understand enthusiasm about fabric.
>>
>>
>> I showed them variagated thread. Dad pronounced that beautiful. I'd
>> realized that I hadn't found any fabric that I couldn't live without,
>> didn't have the suitcase space for it anyway, and was starting to feel
>> embarrassed for walking into a place of business and treating it like a
>> museum. Dad's getting hard of hearing, and they've both been loud
>> talkers their whole lives anyway, so I'd been practically yelling. I
>> couldn't walk out with only a purchase of buttons. So I bought
>> variagated thread, beautiful purples, blues, and greens.
>>
>>
>> There were more quilt shops in town, and Jim and I did find some time
>> alone to visit them, but the timing never worked. I didn't get to them
>> when they were open.
>>
>>
>> --Lia
>>
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