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Posted by NightMist on September 30, 2009, 3:01 am
Well it has taken some getting used to on all fronts, but I do think
it is an improvement, so far anyway.
This is BOCES,
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Board_of_cooperative_educational_services
While they do get stipends from the local districts and the state,
they also charge the district tuition. The amount depends on the
services provided.
Just that difference to us at home is huge. We didn't have to send in
86 boxes of kleenex, a dozen dry erase markers, 6 boxes of chalk, and
a years worth of graham crackers, plus whatever they felt Ash himself
might need. We didn't have to send in anything at all. That was a
difference felt on the home budget let me tell you! Since DD3
graduated last year and won't start college until spring, this has
been the most financially pain free September we have had since 1986
when DD1 started kindergarten.
Ash started school on the 9th of this month. They start a few days
later, end a few days later, and don't have the massive number of
inservice days that the district does.
Just two weeks after he started we had the Fall IEP meeting. The state
requires two, one in the fall and one in the spring. His new teacher
is totally juiced about him. First off he is the most amiable and
well behaved kid in his class (of 4), and she believes that this is
already having a good effect on the other three.
Then to quote her, "He really does have total recall!". She found
this out working with flash cards and a dry erase board. She thought
the word 'refigerator' was too long for him and by the time she had
refiled it he had written it down, as well as the next word which was
'unicorn'. Then he refiled 'unicorn' while she was gaping at the
board, and he was poking her saying 'unicorn' (which is a word he
knows from his own flash cards). He will say words he has figured out
how to say, some sounds are easier for him than others. In this case
he was trying to prompt her for the next word, he does that at home
all the time. This did allow us to emphasize that for him treating
words as independent units works better than sounding out, or phonics.
They are working on trying to sort out which words that he writes he
actually associates with a meaning. A daunting task. I think it is
more than we know because he spending more and more time pouring over
his books rather than just copying out of them.
They are quickly sorting out which worksheets he has seen before as he
will fill them out quick as anything if he knows them. They also
discovered that they have to take the cards out of magazines since
otherwise he will take them out himself, fill them out, and line them
up in a row.
He loves the pool. Since it is a theraputic pool he doesn't even come
home reeking of chlorine. This is the first time he has ever had
access to a pool on a regular basis, he goes four times a week. The
director of the facility feels that learning to swim is an important
life skill (in this area it is, a great lake, a biggish lake and a
multitude of smaller bodies of water, rivers, and streams), so she
tries to make sure that every student in the students with
disabilities facility learns how to swim. So this is multiplely good
for our lad. They quickly learned that in the gym as long as he is
bouncing he is a happy boy. Since they have a trampoline they have
learned why Ash's independent aide is a needful thing! He can be up on
the thing and bouncing before they get the door closed if there is
nobody to hang onto him. So they are going to keep the aide at least
until after Christmas. They do eventually want to be done with the
aide, but they are not willing to run risks.
Naturally practically the first person he made friends with was the
biggest scariest security guard. Think Wesley Snipes as Blade, only
he talks less and growls more. One of the things they do the first
week is introduce all the kids to the security guards (parents got to
meet them on the introductory tour), so they know the guards and the
guards know them. Ash clapped eyes on this guy and immediately ran up
and gave him a hug and looked up at him and said Hi!. The guy smiled
at him, which just impressed the heck out of the teacher. Ash always
gives this particular guard a hug and a Hi! every time he sees him.
Our lad just liked him on sight. When I said hi the guy just nodded
and sort of rumbled, maybe I should have hugged him?
NightMist
--
Legolas is my house elf
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Posted by onetexsun on September 30, 2009, 4:45 am
Nightmist, it sounds like you're making progress. What a relief it
must be to land in a place where Ash is appreciated and understood and
where your concerns are being met. Ash is a lucky young man to have
your for his mom.
Sunny
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Posted by Kate XXXXXX on September 30, 2009, 5:07 am
NightMist wrote:
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> Well it has taken some getting used to on all fronts, but I do think
> it is an improvement, so far anyway.
> This is BOCES,
> http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Board_of_cooperative_educational_services
>
> While they do get stipends from the local districts and the state,
> they also charge the district tuition. The amount depends on the
> services provided.
> Just that difference to us at home is huge. We didn't have to send in
> 86 boxes of kleenex, a dozen dry erase markers, 6 boxes of chalk, and
> a years worth of graham crackers, plus whatever they felt Ash himself
> might need. We didn't have to send in anything at all. That was a
> difference felt on the home budget let me tell you! Since DD3
> graduated last year and won't start college until spring, this has
> been the most financially pain free September we have had since 1986
> when DD1 started kindergarten.
>
> Ash started school on the 9th of this month. They start a few days
> later, end a few days later, and don't have the massive number of
> inservice days that the district does.
>
> Just two weeks after he started we had the Fall IEP meeting. The state
> requires two, one in the fall and one in the spring. His new teacher
> is totally juiced about him. First off he is the most amiable and
> well behaved kid in his class (of 4), and she believes that this is
> already having a good effect on the other three.
> Then to quote her, "He really does have total recall!". She found
> this out working with flash cards and a dry erase board. She thought
> the word 'refigerator' was too long for him and by the time she had
> refiled it he had written it down, as well as the next word which was
> 'unicorn'. Then he refiled 'unicorn' while she was gaping at the
> board, and he was poking her saying 'unicorn' (which is a word he
> knows from his own flash cards). He will say words he has figured out
> how to say, some sounds are easier for him than others. In this case
> he was trying to prompt her for the next word, he does that at home
> all the time. This did allow us to emphasize that for him treating
> words as independent units works better than sounding out, or phonics.
>
> They are working on trying to sort out which words that he writes he
> actually associates with a meaning. A daunting task. I think it is
> more than we know because he spending more and more time pouring over
> his books rather than just copying out of them.
> They are quickly sorting out which worksheets he has seen before as he
> will fill them out quick as anything if he knows them. They also
> discovered that they have to take the cards out of magazines since
> otherwise he will take them out himself, fill them out, and line them
> up in a row.
>
> He loves the pool. Since it is a theraputic pool he doesn't even come
> home reeking of chlorine. This is the first time he has ever had
> access to a pool on a regular basis, he goes four times a week. The
> director of the facility feels that learning to swim is an important
> life skill (in this area it is, a great lake, a biggish lake and a
> multitude of smaller bodies of water, rivers, and streams), so she
> tries to make sure that every student in the students with
> disabilities facility learns how to swim. So this is multiplely good
> for our lad. They quickly learned that in the gym as long as he is
> bouncing he is a happy boy. Since they have a trampoline they have
> learned why Ash's independent aide is a needful thing! He can be up on
> the thing and bouncing before they get the door closed if there is
> nobody to hang onto him. So they are going to keep the aide at least
> until after Christmas. They do eventually want to be done with the
> aide, but they are not willing to run risks.
>
> Naturally practically the first person he made friends with was the
> biggest scariest security guard. Think Wesley Snipes as Blade, only
> he talks less and growls more. One of the things they do the first
> week is introduce all the kids to the security guards (parents got to
> meet them on the introductory tour), so they know the guards and the
> guards know them. Ash clapped eyes on this guy and immediately ran up
> and gave him a hug and looked up at him and said Hi!. The guy smiled
> at him, which just impressed the heck out of the teacher. Ash always
> gives this particular guard a hug and a Hi! every time he sees him.
> Our lad just liked him on sight. When I said hi the guy just nodded
> and sort of rumbled, maybe I should have hugged him?
>
> NightMist
>
>
>
That sounds soooo good. Can I go to school with Ash, please?
--
Kate XXXXXX R.C.T.Q Madame Chef des Trolls
Lady Catherine, Wardrobe Mistress of the Chocolate Buttons
http://www.katedicey.co.uk Click on Kate's Pages and explore!
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Posted by Polly Esther on September 30, 2009, 7:53 am
Success. Progress. Hope.
I feel them all. Good for you, good for Ash. Oh my. Wow. I had to
read your report twice and smiled all the way.
So Glad they finally turned you loose and let you rattle swords until
you got attention and results. YeeeeeeeHa. (Can you tell I'm just
thrilled?) Polly
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Posted by on September 30, 2009, 8:44 am
Great to hear!
Go Ash!! So happy to read your persistence paid off ;)
Ginger in CA
On Sep 30, 12:01=A0am, nightmi...@gmail.com (NightMist) wrote:
show/hide quoted text
> Well it has taken some getting used to on all fronts, but I do think
> it is an improvement, so far anyway.
> This is BOCES,http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Board_of_cooperative_education=
al_services
show/hide quoted text
> While they do get stipends from the local districts and the state,
> they also charge the district tuition. =A0The amount depends on the
> services provided.
> Just that difference to us at home is huge. =A0We didn't have to send in
> 86 boxes of kleenex, a dozen dry erase markers, 6 boxes of chalk, and
> a years worth of graham crackers, plus whatever they felt Ash himself
> might need. =A0We didn't have to send in anything at all. =A0That was a
> difference felt on the home budget let me tell you! =A0Since DD3
> graduated last year and won't start college until spring, this has
> been the most financially pain free September we have had since 1986
> when DD1 started kindergarten.
> Ash started school on the 9th of this month. =A0They start a few days
> later, end a few days later, and don't have the massive number of
> inservice days that the district does.
> Just two weeks after he started we had the Fall IEP meeting. The state
> requires two, one in the fall and one in the spring. =A0His new teacher
> is totally juiced about him. =A0First off he is the most amiable and
> well behaved kid in his class (of 4), and she believes that this is
> already having a good effect on the other three. =A0
> Then to quote her, "He really does have total recall!". =A0She found
> this out working with flash cards and a dry erase board. =A0She thought
> the word 'refigerator' was too long for him and by the time she had
> refiled it he had written it down, as well as the next word which was
> 'unicorn'. =A0Then he refiled 'unicorn' while she was gaping at the
> board, and he was poking her saying 'unicorn' (which is a word he
> knows from his own flash cards). =A0He will say words he has figured out
> how to say, some sounds are easier for him than others. =A0In this case
> he was trying to prompt her for the next word, he does that at home
> all the time. =A0This did allow us to emphasize that for him treating
> words as independent units works better than sounding out, or phonics.
> They are working on trying to sort out which words that he writes he
> actually associates with a meaning. =A0A daunting task. =A0I think it is
> more than we know because he spending more and more time pouring over
> his books rather than just copying out of them.
> They are quickly sorting out which worksheets he has seen before as he
> will fill them out quick as anything if he knows them. =A0They also
> discovered that they have to take the cards out of magazines since
> otherwise he will take them out himself, fill them out, and line them
> up in a row.
> He loves the pool. =A0Since it is a theraputic pool he doesn't even come
> home reeking of chlorine. =A0This is the first time he has ever had
> access to a pool on a regular basis, he goes four times a week. The
> director of the facility feels that learning to swim is an important
> life skill (in this area it is, a great lake, a biggish lake and a
> multitude of smaller bodies of water, rivers, and streams), so she
> tries to make sure that every student in the students with
> disabilities facility learns how to swim. =A0So this is multiplely good
> for our lad. =A0They quickly learned that in the gym as long as he is
> bouncing he is a happy boy. =A0Since they have a trampoline they have
> learned why Ash's independent aide is a needful thing! He can be up on
> the thing and bouncing before they get the door closed if there is
> nobody to hang onto him. =A0So they are going to keep the aide at least
> until after Christmas. =A0They do eventually want to be done =A0with the
> aide, but they are not willing to run risks.
> Naturally practically the first person he made friends with was the
> biggest scariest security guard. =A0Think Wesley Snipes as Blade, only
> he talks less and growls more. =A0One of the things they do the first
> week is introduce all the kids to the security guards (parents got to
> meet them on the introductory tour), so they know the guards and the
> guards know them. =A0Ash clapped eyes on this guy and immediately ran up
> and gave him a hug and looked up at him and said Hi!. =A0The guy smiled
> at him, which just impressed the heck out of the teacher. =A0Ash always
> gives this particular guard a hug and a Hi! every time he sees him.
> Our lad just liked him on sight. =A0When I said hi the guy just nodded
> and sort of rumbled, maybe I should have hugged him?
> NightMist
> --
> Legolas is my house elf
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> it is an improvement, so far anyway.
> This is BOCES,
> http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Board_of_cooperative_educational_services
>
> While they do get stipends from the local districts and the state,
> they also charge the district tuition. The amount depends on the
> services provided.
> Just that difference to us at home is huge. We didn't have to send in
> 86 boxes of kleenex, a dozen dry erase markers, 6 boxes of chalk, and
> a years worth of graham crackers, plus whatever they felt Ash himself
> might need. We didn't have to send in anything at all. That was a
> difference felt on the home budget let me tell you! Since DD3
> graduated last year and won't start college until spring, this has
> been the most financially pain free September we have had since 1986
> when DD1 started kindergarten.
>
> Ash started school on the 9th of this month. They start a few days
> later, end a few days later, and don't have the massive number of
> inservice days that the district does.
>
> Just two weeks after he started we had the Fall IEP meeting. The state
> requires two, one in the fall and one in the spring. His new teacher
> is totally juiced about him. First off he is the most amiable and
> well behaved kid in his class (of 4), and she believes that this is
> already having a good effect on the other three.
> Then to quote her, "He really does have total recall!". She found
> this out working with flash cards and a dry erase board. She thought
> the word 'refigerator' was too long for him and by the time she had
> refiled it he had written it down, as well as the next word which was
> 'unicorn'. Then he refiled 'unicorn' while she was gaping at the
> board, and he was poking her saying 'unicorn' (which is a word he
> knows from his own flash cards). He will say words he has figured out
> how to say, some sounds are easier for him than others. In this case
> he was trying to prompt her for the next word, he does that at home
> all the time. This did allow us to emphasize that for him treating
> words as independent units works better than sounding out, or phonics.
>
> They are working on trying to sort out which words that he writes he
> actually associates with a meaning. A daunting task. I think it is
> more than we know because he spending more and more time pouring over
> his books rather than just copying out of them.
> They are quickly sorting out which worksheets he has seen before as he
> will fill them out quick as anything if he knows them. They also
> discovered that they have to take the cards out of magazines since
> otherwise he will take them out himself, fill them out, and line them
> up in a row.
>
> He loves the pool. Since it is a theraputic pool he doesn't even come
> home reeking of chlorine. This is the first time he has ever had
> access to a pool on a regular basis, he goes four times a week. The
> director of the facility feels that learning to swim is an important
> life skill (in this area it is, a great lake, a biggish lake and a
> multitude of smaller bodies of water, rivers, and streams), so she
> tries to make sure that every student in the students with
> disabilities facility learns how to swim. So this is multiplely good
> for our lad. They quickly learned that in the gym as long as he is
> bouncing he is a happy boy. Since they have a trampoline they have
> learned why Ash's independent aide is a needful thing! He can be up on
> the thing and bouncing before they get the door closed if there is
> nobody to hang onto him. So they are going to keep the aide at least
> until after Christmas. They do eventually want to be done with the
> aide, but they are not willing to run risks.
>
> Naturally practically the first person he made friends with was the
> biggest scariest security guard. Think Wesley Snipes as Blade, only
> he talks less and growls more. One of the things they do the first
> week is introduce all the kids to the security guards (parents got to
> meet them on the introductory tour), so they know the guards and the
> guards know them. Ash clapped eyes on this guy and immediately ran up
> and gave him a hug and looked up at him and said Hi!. The guy smiled
> at him, which just impressed the heck out of the teacher. Ash always
> gives this particular guard a hug and a Hi! every time he sees him.
> Our lad just liked him on sight. When I said hi the guy just nodded
> and sort of rumbled, maybe I should have hugged him?
>
> NightMist
>
>
>