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Posted by Louise in Iowa on September 25, 2009, 10:47 am
Polly makes a good point - Please Ask For Help!
We all understand that there are times when life gets in the way of all our
best intentions - but the bottom line is that we make HUGs because one of
our own needs our love and support. Rather than let the HUG vanish (which
I'm confident is never anyone's intent), please let Kate or someone else
involved know what's happening in your life and that you can't continue with
your part of the HUG. That way we can send out a call for volunteers and -
while it may be delayed slightly - we can get the HUG completed and to its
intended recipient.
Thanks to all who make these projects so successful!
--
Louise in Iowa
nieland1390@mchsi dot com
http://community.webshots.com/user/louiseiniowa
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> Thank you, Kate, for doing the hug invitation; I'm sure there are new
> folks here who wondered about it and may want to join us.
> I don't quite agree with something you said; no surprise to anyone I'm
> sure.
> You said:
> < once you send your block -- the rest is out of your (and my!)
> hands. I don't think anyone here intends to let HUGs linger or not finish
> and deliver them. But things happen. Once you mail your block, you need
> to be prepared to let go... in case the HUG vanishes into cyberspace.
> This happens rarely -- but I think I need to remind you this is strictly a
> voluntary Endeavour and we are limited by the good faith of our
> If a person has taken on the honor and responsibility of receiving
> blocks and seeing it through to the next step,(or the next step), it means
> a lot that the Hug be completed timely. If the assembler or quilter or
> binder (sometimes me) gets infected with head lice or a surprise long term
> visit by brother-in-law Bubba, 12 cases of beer and all 9 younguns, please
> ask for help.
> Hugs aren't going to be 'out of my hands' until they are gently wrapped
> around the person we are hugging. I will be watching and I will be
> delighted to find help if you need it.
> I do so hope that I've been able to say this agreeably. If not, do
> remember that I have gators. Polly
>
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Posted by Roberta on September 25, 2009, 10:58 am
Well said, Polly. There have been a few instances when life gets in
the way of completing a Hug. Nobody's fault. But sometimes people seem
awfully shy about asking for help. Maybe we need to start an automatic
backup program - the person who volunteered the Hug should appoint
someone to follow up, make sure all is on schedule ...sort of a
Flylady for Hugs. Is that you, maybe? Doesn't have to be you every
time! We could all take turns!
Roberta in D
On Thu, 24 Sep 2009 20:34:19 -0500, "Polly Esther"
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>Thank you, Kate, for doing the hug invitation; I'm sure there are new folks
>here who wondered about it and may want to join us.
> I don't quite agree with something you said; no surprise to anyone I'm
>sure.
> You said:
> < once you send your block -- the rest is out of your (and my!)
>hands. I don't think anyone here intends to let HUGs linger or not finish
>and deliver them. But things happen. Once you mail your block, you need to
>be prepared to let go... in case the HUG vanishes into cyberspace. This
>happens rarely -- but I think I need to remind you this is strictly a
>voluntary Endeavour and we are limited by the good faith of our
> If a person has taken on the honor and responsibility of receiving
>blocks and seeing it through to the next step,(or the next step), it means a
>lot that the Hug be completed timely. If the assembler or quilter or binder
>(sometimes me) gets infected with head lice or a surprise long term visit by
>brother-in-law Bubba, 12 cases of beer and all 9 younguns, please ask for
>help.
> Hugs aren't going to be 'out of my hands' until they are gently wrapped
>around the person we are hugging. I will be watching and I will be
>delighted to find help if you need it.
> I do so hope that I've been able to say this agreeably. If not, do
>remember that I have gators. Polly
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Posted by Edna Pearl on September 24, 2009, 7:49 pm
Mercy! These collective efforts really have a characteristic charm and
beauty all their own! What a wonderful concept! Count me in.
ep
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> to join the HUG list. (many of you are already there!) We welcome active
> posters as well as those of you who hide in the shadows but read
> regularly. Anyone who wants to send a little love and caring is wanted and
> welcomed.
> What is a HUG? -- Mz Sairey said it best -- and you can read her
> explanation that I posted to Estelle UK's post from 9/20. (or you can
> read it here: http://tinyurl.com/yb7nf9u)
> What does it mean to join the HUG list? It means you give me (as current
> keeper of the list) your name and email addy. I add it to the list and
> when someone feels the need to offer a HUG to someone they care about
> (could be from here on the RCTQ list, someone in their private live,
> someone at work... doesn't matter), I put out a call.
> The HUG request goes out -- members are asked to make a block or even send
> a square of fabric to the HUG requester. Sometimes there is a theme or a
> color preference (I did a HUG for my DS who lost her life to cervical
> cancer -- it was a Lighthouse HUG -- you can see it on my webshots page).
> The requester provides her snail mail address and a due date.
> The rest is up to you. Some members try to respond to each and every HUG
> request. Some prefer to limit their participation. It doesn't matter.
> You level of participation is totally up to you. There is no accounting
> of who gives to which HUG request. No one is keeping tabs. If the
> request comes at a bad time for you -- hit DELETE. I know of one HUGGER
> who uses scraps and has a store of 6 1/2" blocks of varying designs and
> colors... just waiting for the right occasion to use them.
> The assembly of the quilt top is usually done by the person requesting the
> blocks. The quilting may be done her the requester also -- or we have
> several RCTQ'ers - HUG listers who volunteer to do the quilting on their
> long arm. We invite HUG Listers to tuck $1 in with their square to help
> with the cost of backing & batting -- but as any part of a HUG quilt -
> this is optional. Ultimately, the HUG requester is responsible for seeing
> the top through to completion.
> As HUG List manager -- I try to follow-up to make sure all HUG quilts are
> completed and delivered. But I do feel obligated to give this caveat:
> once you send your block -- the rest if out of your (and my!) hands. I
> don't think anyone here intends to let HUG's linger or not finish and
> deliver them. But things happen. Once you mail your block, you need to
> be prepared to let go... in case the HUG vanishes into cyberspace. This
> happens rarely -- but I think I need to remind you this is strictly a
> voluntary Endeavour and we are limited by the good faith of our
> participants.
> If you would like more information -- please ask here or email me off
> list. If you would like to be added to the HUG List -- just email me
> privately with your name and email addy (mine is grovesfam -- at --
> comcast -- dot -- net).
> Everyone is welcome. You do NOT have to be a master quilter to
> participate. Simple 4 patches and 9 patches carry as much HUG value as the
> most intricate blocks. It's the love and caring behind each block that
> makes them all beautiful.
> Thanks
> PS -- you can see some of our past hugs here:
> http://gallery.ppwp.com/gallery/HUGS
> Kate in MI
> http://community.webshots.com/user/K_Groves
>
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Posted by J* on September 24, 2009, 9:46 pm
its not just the charm and beauty them possess that makes them sooooooo
special.
its the love incorporated into each and every block made for a Hug that
makes them so special.
they do their magic everytime they are used by the Huggee.
each one is amazing in its own right too.
tho mine is the Bestestestestestest and the Prettiest of course.
i'm not the least bit biased either, just stating the facts.
i am trying really hard to let it do its magic on me now.
its kind of hard cuz i'm of two minds when i look at it.
for now i'm sleeping under it each night til i can separate those two minds
of mine.
j.
<i do hope everyone understands what i'm saying here, its just real hard for
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"Edna Pearl" wrote...
Mercy! These collective efforts really have a characteristic charm and
beauty all their own! What a wonderful concept! Count me in.
ep
"Kate in MI" wrote...
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> to join the HUG list. (many of you are already there!) We welcome active
> posters as well as those of you who hide in the shadows but read
> regularly. Anyone who wants to send a little love and caring is wanted and
> welcomed.
> Thanks
<snipped>
> PS -- you can see some of our past hugs here:
> http://gallery.ppwp.com/gallery/HUGS
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> Kate in MI
> http://community.webshots.com/user/K_Groves
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Posted by Polly Esther on September 24, 2009, 10:13 pm
You warm our hearts, Jeanne, to know that our Hug for you is surrounding you
and holding you close. You'll never know how many customs agents and
assorted others the gators had to threaten to get that cheap blanket around
you. I bribed the investigators with banana nut bread. Works every time.
Polly
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> its not just the charm and beauty them possess that makes them sooooooo
> special.
> its the love incorporated into each and every block made for a Hug that
> makes them so special.
> they do their magic everytime they are used by the Huggee.
> each one is amazing in its own right too.
> tho mine is the Bestestestestestest and the Prettiest of course.
> i'm not the least bit biased either, just stating the facts.
> i am trying really hard to let it do its magic on me now.
> its kind of hard cuz i'm of two minds when i look at it.
> for now i'm sleeping under it each night til i can separate those two
> minds
> of mine.
> j.
> <i do hope everyone understands what i'm saying here, its just real hard
> for
> "Edna Pearl" wrote...
> Mercy! These collective efforts really have a characteristic charm and
> beauty all their own! What a wonderful concept! Count me in.
> ep
> "Kate in MI" wrote...
>> to join the HUG list. (many of you are already there!) We welcome
>> active
>> posters as well as those of you who hide in the shadows but read
>> regularly. Anyone who wants to send a little love and caring is wanted
>> and
>> welcomed.
> > Thanks
>> PS -- you can see some of our past hugs here:
>> http://gallery.ppwp.com/gallery/HUGS
>> Kate in MI
>> http://community.webshots.com/user/K_Groves
>
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> folks here who wondered about it and may want to join us.
> I don't quite agree with something you said; no surprise to anyone I'm
> sure.
> You said:
> < once you send your block -- the rest is out of your (and my!)
> hands. I don't think anyone here intends to let HUGs linger or not finish
> and deliver them. But things happen. Once you mail your block, you need
> to be prepared to let go... in case the HUG vanishes into cyberspace.
> This happens rarely -- but I think I need to remind you this is strictly a
> voluntary Endeavour and we are limited by the good faith of our
> If a person has taken on the honor and responsibility of receiving
> blocks and seeing it through to the next step,(or the next step), it means
> a lot that the Hug be completed timely. If the assembler or quilter or
> binder (sometimes me) gets infected with head lice or a surprise long term
> visit by brother-in-law Bubba, 12 cases of beer and all 9 younguns, please
> ask for help.
> Hugs aren't going to be 'out of my hands' until they are gently wrapped
> around the person we are hugging. I will be watching and I will be
> delighted to find help if you need it.
> I do so hope that I've been able to say this agreeably. If not, do
> remember that I have gators. Polly
>