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Posted by Sharon Hays on June 1, 2009, 9:55 am
sopzebub wrote:
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> I need help!
>
> I have been asked to sew bridesmaid dresses from this Vogue Pattern:
>
> http://www.voguepatterns.com/item/V1076.htm?
> tab=evening_bridal_includes_designer&page=1
>
> it is a tunic, but the bride wants me to just elongate the tunic by
> attaching a
> portion on to the bottom (and make it look good - which I can do)
>
> But here's my BIG problem. The pattern calls for Two-Way Stretch Knits
> Only:
> Lightweight Double Knit, Wool Lyra and Cotton Lyrca. But the Bride (who is
> a
> very good friend) went out and bought 14 meters of Crepe-Back-Satin in the
> EXACT
> shade she wants before telling me and now I'm stuck with this fabric.
>
> What I am hoping some expert in fabric will tell me is if it is at all
> possible
> to sew this pattern with the crepe-back-satin that has already been
> purchased to
> go with the pattern the bride has requested.
>
> I know that crepe is a woven fabric with some give on the bias and will
> have
> less stretch than a Knit but I'm hoping someone will tell me that I can do
> this
> and make it work - even if I have to take my time with it.
>
> Thank you to anyone who can help!
>
>
> -------------------------------------
> wsloan
BTDTGTTS
Sit her down and calmly explain that this fabric will not, ever, even close,
work with this pattern.
Nope. Not even if you.... or..... Nope will not work, so sorry she didn't
ask you first before purchasing both the pattern and the fabric.
Cruise through the pattern catalogs online. Find a pattern that's close and
alter the style details till you get close to what she wants with the
current pattern.
And hurry up about telling her. The longer you wait, the worse off both of
you will be.
Sharon
---
Never try to teach a pig to sing. It's a waste of time and just annoys the
pig.
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Posted by Ursula Schrader on June 1, 2009, 1:07 pm
"Sharon Hays" ...
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> sopzebub wrote:
> BTDTGTTS
> Sit her down and calmly explain that this fabric will not, ever, even
> close,
> work with this pattern.
> Nope. Not even if you.... or..... Nope will not work, so sorry she
> didn't
> ask you first before purchasing both the pattern and the fabric.
> Cruise through the pattern catalogs online. Find a pattern that's close
> and
> alter the style details till you get close to what she wants with the
> current pattern.
> And hurry up about telling her. The longer you wait, the worse off both
> of
> you will be.
Oh dear, I know that somebody here said that brides are unreasonble (or used
some other expression) but still it is a complete mystery to me why folks
will go through such a hassle for just one single day. True, I'm getting
married and - yes, that dress is some kind of a hassle, too. But at least I
don't force about half a dozen unfortunate females into some pattern and
colour they -worst case - don't even like and look butt-ugly in. What is it
that folks in some parts of the world are so absolutely obsessed with colour
schemes?
Why aren't they obsessed with the songs during the service in church or the
word from the bible that is read on the occasion (don't get me wrong here,
I'm not very pious, I've got my beliefs but they do somewhat differ from
what goes on in church). Still, I took great pains to get the service more
personlised and pick from the hymnbook and the bible what reflects my
feelings best. Just out of sheer curiosity: Do these
colour-scheme-I-must-have-exactly-this-pattern brides take care of this
aspect of their wedding, too? Is there, in anglo-saxon countries, any
possibility in the wedding service for such choices? I know that even the
Roman Catholic church here allows a lot of personal stuff. Or is it all the
music you know from the movies (whatsit, Lohengrin or some such stuff?).
I'm firmly resolved: On my wedding I hope everybody has a good time because
for me it's a celebration to show my gratitude for what I received. If folks
want to wear potato sacks, go ahead, if they feel fine in them. They will
get nice food, nice drink, nice music and if they drop an little envelope in
our piggy bank, we'll be happy. End. My dress? Well, vanity, I want a nice
dress at least once in my life, but that's just for me, and nobody else will
have to suffer from my grey-green colour scheme.
Come to think of it, my SIL (DB and her are to be wed in July) has a dress
that will make her look like a meringue cake on feet, and between the
ceremony in church and dinner there's a champagne reception. I don't know
about any bridesmaids (I'm fortunately not maidenly enough for a catholic
church, and probably far too fat and tall for her 5'1'').
What I don't get is - why do they make such a fuss about a dress they'll
never wear again. I mean, even if people get a divorce and then re-marry,
they'll never wear the dress from their first wedding (true, I wouldn't
either). But I don't even know about second-hand dresses. Their daughters
will very likely not be able to wear it, either, because of various reasons
(size, fashion, time of year). I can't believe the luxury this custom
reflects or is supposed to reflect. I wonder how many of those brides are
really that well off. Did they have to take up a mortgage to finance the
whole affair...
Oh dear, I'm rambling again, sorry! ;-) End of my 2 c.
U.
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Posted by Chris R on June 1, 2009, 2:26 pm
Ursala said
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> But at least I don't force about half a
> dozen unfortunate females into some
> pattern and colour they -worst case -
> don't even like and look butt-ugly in.
> What is it that folks in some parts of the > world are so absolutely
obsessed with
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> colour schemes?
In February, we went to another family wedding. It was the first time
I'd seen a sensible solution to the bride's maid's dresses. The bride
picked the color scheme and then the brides found dresses in the color,
but the style fit their own body-type. The bride picked black.... at
least it was an easier color for the girls to find.
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Posted by wurstergirl on June 3, 2009, 8:16 am
I dunno. I kind of had an opposite experience with my own wedding. I
was so focussed on making sure everyone else was happy that I didn't
really enjoy myself. To this day I regret not taking that opportunity
to shine in the dress of a lifetime. Maybe that's some reflection on
my character......
Just a musing.
Pora
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Posted by Pogonip on June 1, 2009, 2:38 pm
Ursula Schrader wrote:
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>
> Oh dear, I know that somebody here said that brides are unreasonble (or used
> some other expression) but still it is a complete mystery to me why folks
> will go through such a hassle for just one single day. True, I'm getting
> married and - yes, that dress is some kind of a hassle, too. But at least I
> don't force about half a dozen unfortunate females into some pattern and
> colour they -worst case - don't even like and look butt-ugly in. What is it
> that folks in some parts of the world are so absolutely obsessed with colour
> schemes?
>
> Why aren't they obsessed with the songs during the service in church or the
> word from the bible that is read on the occasion (don't get me wrong here,
> I'm not very pious, I've got my beliefs but they do somewhat differ from
> what goes on in church). Still, I took great pains to get the service more
> personlised and pick from the hymnbook and the bible what reflects my
> feelings best. Just out of sheer curiosity: Do these
> colour-scheme-I-must-have-exactly-this-pattern brides take care of this
> aspect of their wedding, too? Is there, in anglo-saxon countries, any
> possibility in the wedding service for such choices? I know that even the
> Roman Catholic church here allows a lot of personal stuff. Or is it all the
> music you know from the movies (whatsit, Lohengrin or some such stuff?).
>
> I'm firmly resolved: On my wedding I hope everybody has a good time because
> for me it's a celebration to show my gratitude for what I received. If folks
> want to wear potato sacks, go ahead, if they feel fine in them. They will
> get nice food, nice drink, nice music and if they drop an little envelope in
> our piggy bank, we'll be happy. End. My dress? Well, vanity, I want a nice
> dress at least once in my life, but that's just for me, and nobody else will
> have to suffer from my grey-green colour scheme.
>
> Come to think of it, my SIL (DB and her are to be wed in July) has a dress
> that will make her look like a meringue cake on feet, and between the
> ceremony in church and dinner there's a champagne reception. I don't know
> about any bridesmaids (I'm fortunately not maidenly enough for a catholic
> church, and probably far too fat and tall for her 5'1'').
>
> What I don't get is - why do they make such a fuss about a dress they'll
> never wear again. I mean, even if people get a divorce and then re-marry,
> they'll never wear the dress from their first wedding (true, I wouldn't
> either). But I don't even know about second-hand dresses. Their daughters
> will very likely not be able to wear it, either, because of various reasons
> (size, fashion, time of year). I can't believe the luxury this custom
> reflects or is supposed to reflect. I wonder how many of those brides are
> really that well off. Did they have to take up a mortgage to finance the
> whole affair...
>
> Oh dear, I'm rambling again, sorry! ;-) End of my 2 c.
>
> U.
>
>
No argument from me, Ursula. It's a silly thing that arose out of envy.
Wealthy people started putting on spectacular weddings many years ago,
and the aspiring middle class emulated them as much as they were able.
Somehow, I think their hope was that by doing so, they, too, might
become wealthy or upper class. My mother was married in a suit, which
was the custom in those days for a middle-class wedding. Not long after
that, though, the big showy wedding started making its appearance across
the U.S. About the time that debutante balls went into decline, I
think. Today, there is a huge industry to serve the wedding consumer.
Money that could be spent on a down-payment for a home, or for a nest
egg, or rainy-day fund is being lavished on one day plus often a
honeymoon to an exotic locale. These events are very stressful, and
frequently the participants are so focused on the presentation that the
principals fade into the background. So sometimes the bride wakes up a
week or so later to realize that while she's had the big event, she's
married to a stranger or worse, someone she really doesn't like.
--
Joanne
stitches @ singerlady.reno.nv.us.earth.milky-way.com
http://members.tripod.com/~bernardschopen/
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>
> I need help!
>
> I have been asked to sew bridesmaid dresses from this Vogue Pattern:
>
> http://www.voguepatterns.com/item/V1076.htm?
> tab=evening_bridal_includes_designer&page=1
>
> it is a tunic, but the bride wants me to just elongate the tunic by
> attaching a
> portion on to the bottom (and make it look good - which I can do)
>
> But here's my BIG problem. The pattern calls for Two-Way Stretch Knits
> Only:
> Lightweight Double Knit, Wool Lyra and Cotton Lyrca. But the Bride (who is
> a
> very good friend) went out and bought 14 meters of Crepe-Back-Satin in the
> EXACT
> shade she wants before telling me and now I'm stuck with this fabric.
>
> What I am hoping some expert in fabric will tell me is if it is at all
> possible
> to sew this pattern with the crepe-back-satin that has already been
> purchased to
> go with the pattern the bride has requested.
>
> I know that crepe is a woven fabric with some give on the bias and will
> have
> less stretch than a Knit but I'm hoping someone will tell me that I can do
> this
> and make it work - even if I have to take my time with it.
>
> Thank you to anyone who can help!
>
>
> -------------------------------------
> wsloan